Not long back there was a so called "I hate men " discussion .(well all started off with a gossip) . All pissed of from tender toes to peak heads, pinning our own interest of ruining the time, talking about every guy we ever met and mentioning how mean bastards they were.Offending the ones we like though !!
After an interesting gossip of 2 long hours and then an argument of almost an hour we agreed upon a conclusion and a single line " boys are always boys ".
That absolutely meant boys to us were nothing but naughty little punks and freaky bratz , irresponsible idiots and rebellious frauds .
Every word defining what exactly they are .
But when I later gave it a second thought i realized that not every guy is the same , not every man thinks similar , not every brat will have mirroring thoughts .
I couldt actually think of a few persons who meant a lot to me and whom i take as my role models , no doubt they may be thinking the same too . every girl or as a matter of fact every person admires the ones whom the others dislike (or may be hate). friends or foes , besties or beasties they are all equally filled in our minds and (its really hard to mention but) may be our hearts too.
Having my own analysis of all the guys and my friends , cousins I had a strange but pathetic conclusion that all the hansum hunks are to be unreliable and mistrusted and vice-versa may be it was a pathetic conclusion but not a lie .
its true that most of the guys who lure the girls wid their manly charm have maintained chaotic relations .
So all the girls dreaming about "prince charming " be aware of their not so pretty illuminating attitudes.
and another special character of these guys are their acting skills which if aptly presented on stage could bag all the awards of the legend Jack Nicholson. They can create wonders by just their words and oh so cute smiles .
A different set of guys not so attractive by their looks but heart touching and stone melting speeches steal away our hearts and eventually they turn out to be unconvincing and hard to believe type of men.
its not that they don't care for us , they shower it a lot , a lot of love and unending care but the question is do they really care for us ? do we matter so much to them ? are we important as[ects of their life ?
Only they can answer these questions. but the only thing i know and have realised is however the peron might be and whatever his attitude might be, whether he is charming or he is desirably chunky its doesn't really bother .
The longer they pour all the glowing love and care and attention to them they just can never ever think of leaving.
( i have to say us too.)
on a positive note there will be no world war 3 soon until and unless this continues.
P.S. - World peace can never be acquired in this matter.
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